Nicholas Kristoff is someone I admire as a writer and a person. His recent article on the disgrace of the Veterans Administration – how it abandons traumatized vets if their scars happen to be, as they increasingly are, mental or spiritual in nature – is poignant and important. But it overlooks, as most modern media do, the far more important issue, the issue from which we could learn something about ourselves and our destiny, and not just patch up one of the symptoms of our discontent.
The real question is, Why are so many U.S. service men and women suffering from trauma? Why are they committing suicide in such appalling numbers, according to Kristoff’s report 25 times higher than deaths due to actual combat?
The answer is twofold. On the one hand, despite appearances, the human race is, slowly and painfully, making progress. What was perfectly all right yesterday – slavery, torture, genocide, landmines, etc. — is recognized to be wrong today. On the other hand, most of the world, and America in particular, is advancing rapidly in ever more gruesome and dehumanizing forms of combat. Drones, for example, which allow men and women to kill without mercy, without awareness of what they are doing (and which are coming soon to a town near you).
Service men and women are only the forefront of this tension. They are actually brutally dehumanized psychologically even before they get into actual combat. If we “need” to do this to people (as even Army psychiatrists claim) we are doing something terribly and fundamentally wrong.
Gandhi gave his followers a talisman: ‘think how what you’re about to do affects the poorest person you’ve ever seen.’ We have one at Metta, too: ‘Never degrade a person. Not yourself, not anyone else.’
If our “security” depends on such degradation it is doomed to fail. It will never make us secure. It is time to rethink what security even means and how it can be reached by a path that does not reverse, but harmonizes with human progress.
Tashi Delek – Hello
I am a Tibetan Buddhist I love what you write about
I am ordain I will be in Full robes soon.
I have been a Buddhist for a few years now
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I love your Peace campaign may it continue for a long long time
may the wheel be turned for peace
And May PEACE BE SPREAD IN ALL 10 Directions
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Michael Nagler
Thank you for the clear insight. Teaching nonviolence by supporting such deep thought is essential. We are fortunate at Valencia College in Orlando to have worked with Michael Nagler and the Metta Center. We continue to seek wisdom and direction from the Center. The new blog is great. Thanks.
Prof. Michael Nagler,
I wanted to thank you for your role in publishing the 168A/B lectures on Webcast. I am happy to say that after a few months, I was able to complete them.
This was a life changing experience for me.
Always appreciative.
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Also, apologies, I had meant to type 164A/B, not 168.
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Hi Michael et al!
I find this theme very interesting and building on the idea that our world is becoming a better one, I was at a talk with the chief US negotiator on nuclear weapons who was taslking about moving towards the idea of “mutually assured security”. So there is hope..
I’ve been speculating on a theory of PTSD and service people. Roughly it goes like this: They are in a tight “family” experience overseas with their platoon. They return stateside and that is lost. The trauma remains. The heart revisits the family connections which are not current, but the trauma remains a powerful memory experience. This leads to a kind of attribution (not very conscious, if at all), wherein the heart goes to the trauma and attributes the loss of close family (platoon) to the trauma. Re-experiencing the trauma re-invokes the family experience. This sets off chemicals of reciprocation which start to form a substitute system for the love experienced in the family experience of the platoon. This becomes the basis of the repetition of trauma. This checks out if you see less PTSD at the actual military sites, which a soldier told me is the case; you don’t see as much PTSD over there, it’s when they come back. Treatment would involve creating actual platoons stateside where sufferers would be in a platoon with actual tasks (Americorps type stuff, obviously, not being in battle) to replicate the close family situation of a platoon. This then could be worked into a transitioning out process, or if need be they could just live in the stateside platoon.
Hi Sam, Tell me more about that person and his idea, if you would. By email though: I often miss FB.
Michael
Thank you so much for your wisdom. I’ve learned so much from listening to your Yoga Hour discussions with my teacher, Ellen Grace O’Brian on http://www.unity.fm
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